Fix bug with not being able to update wxTaskBarIcon under MSW after a
DPI scale change or [dis]connection of another monitor using different
DPI: this resulted in "TaskbarCreated" message being sent by the system,
which we handled by trying to create the taskbar icon again. However in
this case, recreating it failed, presumably because it still existed, as
modifying the existing icon still worked.
Change the handle of "TaskbarCreated" to try both adding and updating
the icon, as it seems that we can't be sure whether we still have it or
not when we get this message.
Refactor the existing code to specify the operation to perform when
calling the new DoSetIcon(). This actually makes things slightly simpler
for it, as it doesn't need to update m_iconAdded inside it any more.
Closes#18588.
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