Forbid creation of wxPaintEvent objects from user code

This doesn't work anyhow, so it's better to prevent the code doing this
from compiling instead of getting run-time asserts or worse.

Also simplify construction of these events inside wxWidgets by passing
the window itself to the ctor instead of passing just its ID and calling
SetEventObject() separately later.

For consistency, do the same thing for wxNcPaintEvent too.

src/osx/window_osx.cpp

@@ -1989,9 +1989,8 @@ bool wxWindowMac::MacDoRedraw( long time )
     {
         // paint the window itself
 
-        wxPaintEvent event(GetId());
+        wxPaintEvent event(this);
         event.SetTimestamp(time);
-        event.SetEventObject(this);
         handled = HandleWindowEvent(event);
     }
 
@@ -2040,8 +2039,7 @@ void wxWindowMac::MacPaintChildrenBorders()
         if ( m_updateRegion.Contains(clientOrigin.x+x-10, clientOrigin.y+y-10, w+20, h+20) )
         {
             // paint custom borders
-            wxNcPaintEvent eventNc( child->GetId() );
-            eventNc.SetEventObject( child );
+            wxNcPaintEvent eventNc( child );
             if ( !child->HandleWindowEvent( eventNc ) )
             {
                 child->MacPaintBorders(0, 0) ;