Add wxSystemThemedControl and use it in wxMSW

wxSystemThemedControl allows to use the "system theme" (i.e. the theme used by
the system applications such as file manager and which can, surprisingly, be
different from the default one). Currently it is only implemented for wxMSW
and does nothing under the other platforms.

Use wxSystemThemedControl for wxDataViewCtrl, wxListCtrl and, optionally, if
wxTR_TWIST_BUTTONS style is specified, wxTreeCtrl to give them more native
appearance under MSW.

Closes #16414.

include/wx/listbase.h

@@ -16,6 +16,7 @@
 #include "wx/gdicmn.h"
 #include "wx/event.h"
 #include "wx/control.h"
+#include "wx/systhemectrl.h"
 
 class WXDLLIMPEXP_FWD_CORE wxImageList;
 
@@ -377,7 +378,7 @@ private:
 // the real control class but is just used for implementation convenience. We
 // should define the public class functions as pure virtual here in the future
 // however.
-class WXDLLIMPEXP_CORE wxListCtrlBase : public wxControl
+class WXDLLIMPEXP_CORE wxListCtrlBase : public wxSystemThemedControl<wxControl>
 {
 public:
     wxListCtrlBase() { }